Of course you can dress any which way you like, but if you don’t want to look like you are sixteen, like you are trying too hard to stay young, or worse, appear older than you are, you will need some guidelines as to how to dress after 40. Here are just some of the things women over 40 need to be aware of.
What are some of the things you should avoid?
1. Don’t buy clothes that do not flatter you, even if it’s the trends this season. For this it’s important to know your body type, which I will discuss in upcoming posts.
2. Try not to be too matchy matchy or too polished. It’s nice to mix things up and be a bit more playful. A 2 piece suit will quickly look old. Better to mix that jacket with another skirt or pants and look effortlessly chic.
3. Avoid buying fabrics that are too cheap as they are usually not flattering or will not last. Best to buy only the clothes that you love and that have a chance of lasting.
4. Don’t mix a tight skirt or pants with a tight top. Aim to have either a tight skirt with a loser top or vice versa. See also my tips on how to wear leggings over 40.
5. Clothes to avoid:
- really short shorts
- coloured cowboy boots
- mini dresses
- miniskirts
- mom jeans
- ripped jeans
- baggy jeans (see also how to wear jeans over 40)
- unfitted blazers
- baggy sweats
- too long skirts
What are some of the things you should do more of?
1. Have more classic items in your wardrobe. Some important classics are:
- A cardigan
- A long coat (could be a trench coat)
- A little black dress
- Well fitted long pants
- A well fitted blazer
- A good pair of dark denim jeans that fit you well. Boot cut or straight leg is usually the most flattering.
2. Mix and match designer items with non-designer ones. I personally love Zara for many of my fashion items and basics as they carry items in pure cotton or pure wool.
3. Take a good critical look at yourself before you go out and see if you look too overdone. The aim is to look effortlessly chic so just evalueate and if necessary you may have to add on something a bit more casual
4. keep current with the fashion trends and make sure you have a few current items in your wardrobe.
5. Develop your own style. Really discover what works best for your body and stick to that. If you can this well, you will have very little need for the real fashion items.
6. Wear skirts that are just above the knee which is the best length for women over 40. Try not to go completely over the knee as this is not flattering for your calves and your overall look will be older. You will look the sexiest and chicest if the skirt is not too wide and not too long.
7. Try to achieve the hourglass figure as your final outcome. Depending on your shape you will either have to add volume to the top or the bottom. Don’t do both.
8. If you want to hide some of the bulges, then shapewear definitely helps.
9. Make sure you wear a good bra.
10. Wear shoes with heals that you are able to walk in.
I want to exphasise that these tips are not set in stone and it’s up to you to decide what works best for you. But if you don’t want to look young and hip, then these ‘rules’ can certainly help. Stay tuned as I will go more into detail about dressing for your body shape which is so important into looking just right!
For more tips, see also this related article: How to dress over 40 – my top ten tips
If you like to know more about for your body type and which garments would be good for you, I recommend trying My Professional Stylist. Get your own personal recommendations!
If you have any further tips then I would love to hear them!
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some great tips here! My fear when dressing is that I’ll look like I’m trying too hard, or trying to look younger than I am. I think it looks terrible when someone my age or older is wearing, let’s say, really tight ripped up jeans and a top with a huge word boldly splashed across its front, and wearing it off of one shoulder….super high stilletos, gaudy jewelry and overdone makeup. It just looks pathetic, unfortunately. Luckily for me, that sort of look was never my style, even when I was a teen, so it’s not hard to avoid it. I still think about it though when I’m shopping or dressing….’is this age appropriate for me?’ I really want to remain playful and stylish, but I don’t grab just anything that catches my eye anymore.
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Thanks Tracy. I think you can still look very hip and be very creative with your clothes over 40. But as you say there are some things that you can better leave to the younger generation…
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