I love women that have a truly unique and arty sense of style who are not afraid to stand out.
Shelley certainly fits that category with her unusual unique hairstyle taking center stage and she has never felt better. Let’s find out more about her!
Can you tell us a little bit more about yourself?
I was the only child of two working parents, and learned to be independent, resourceful, and to entertain myself from a very early age.
Spending a lot of time alone fostered a love of solitary pursuits like drawing, reading, photography and watching old movies, and I still enjoy doing those things today. After moving from a small town to a larger city to attend university, I spent several years of working in record stores (remember those?) and other retail and contract jobs.
I found a “real job”, and work as a program assistant at a University in London, Ontario, which allows me to indulge in passions such as travelling and thrift shopping. I have no kids, but I have two smart and adorable pet rats. My current goals are to keep my wardrobe from taking over my too-small apartment, and meet as many of my blogger friends as possible.
As a point of reference which age group do you belong to or perhaps you are willing to share your age?
I’m 53 – a middle-aged tween, according to my pal Melanie of Bag and a Beret.
Can you tell us a bit more about your blog Forest City Fashionista and why you created it?
I’ve always noticed other people who have unique personal style, and when I first saw Scott Schuman’s blog,The Sartorialist, I was inspired to do something similar for the city I live in.
My blog began as a way of documenting the small population of creative and stylish people in London, Ontario. Eventually, I found I was shooting the same people over and over, and I was asked why I didn’t photograph my own outfits.
Over the last 5 years, my blog has evolved into a photographic diary of the outfits and adventures of a 50-something round peg living in a square hole.
How would you describe your own style?
I would use words like playful, funky, and quirky to describe my style. I’ve loved secondhand shopping for most of my adult life and most of my current wardrobe is from thrift stores.
I do very little retail shopping for clothing, but when I do buy something new it tends to be black with an interesting shape and then I wear it with something vintage and brightly-colored. I’m not very girly, although I do enjoy wearing full skirts with crinolines once in a while.
What would you consider the most important components of your style?
My hair is probably my most recognizable component of my style – shaved back and sides, with a long section on top that is coloured orange and pink at the moment. Pretty much everyone that reads my blog recognizes me from my hair.
My footwear is also important to me because I walk a lot, and can’t wear heels because of foot issues, so I almost always wear boots, Doc Martens, or Converse sneakers.
Where do you live and how does that influence your style?
I have lived the last 35 years of my life in London, Ontario, a city of close to 400,000 people, known for being the home of Western University, and a lot of insurance and law firms. I don’t think that this city has influenced my style, rather, I tend to stand out in this city because of its conservative nature.
Do you feel you have a signature style?
According to the people I work with, my signature style tends to be “stuff that other women my age couldn’t get away with”. I guess my hair and footwear would be part of my signature style, and I am drawn to exaggerated proportions (big shoulders in jackets, wide-leg pants, etc.)
What inspires your outfit choices the most?
My mood, the weather, and what I’m doing that day, not necessarily in that order
Do you take things like color profiling or body type into account when you dress?
Not that I’m consciously aware of.
Has your style changed at all after turning 40?
My style became more professional and a bit more conservative when I got a full-time office job in my late 30’s and continued into my 40’s. Now that I have been in my current job for 10 years, I’ve found I can wear pretty much whatever I want to work as long as it’s clean and not too short or low cut, so I’ve felt free to experiment more in the last few years with different colors and shapes in my wardrobe.
I did notice that I started wearing more color in the last ten years, which could indicate that I’m mellowing out a little. My body shape has changed over the last 5 or so years which has meant that some things I wore 10 years ago don’t work on the body I have today.
Do you believe in dressing ‘age appropriately’ and what does it mean to you?
I’ve always worn what I liked, and what I felt good in at that particular time, so I’ve never given much thought to whether what I wore was “age-appropriate”.
When style magazines would do those features on how to wear a particular trend at 20, 30, 40, 50 etc. I would often find the version suggested for the 20 year old appealed to me more than the boring one for the 50 year old. I have my own ideas of what I feel comfortable in, and what is appropriate for me, depending on my current body shape, so that is the yardstick I use rather than any societal rules regarding age-appropriateness.
Would you say that at this stage of your life you are now more, or less interested in fashion, style and the way you look?
I would say that I’ve always been interested in fashion and style, even as a child when I was mesmerized by the outfits worn by Cher and Carol Burnett on television.
I didn’t really know what kind of look suited me best until I was into my 40’s, and I guess at this stage of my life I am less interested in fashion than I used to be, but more interested in whether the way I present myself through my personal style reflects who I am on the inside.
Why is the way you look important to you?
How I look (by that, I’m referring to hair style, clothing and accessories) is important to me because my body is my canvas. I have always loved the arts – theatre, dance, film, visual arts, etc., and wanted to be an artist when I was a child, but I learned that I am not particularly talented in any of those fields, (although I am a good photographer), so what I choose to put on my body every day is my means of creative expression. I want to present my best possible self to the world, but also, a self that reflects my interest in colour, shape, texture, etc.
Which of the outfits on your blog are personal favorites and why?
I can’t think of any in particular – if it’s on the blog, it means I like something about the outfit and I feel good in it.
Do you follow trends? And if yes, which trends excite you at the moment?
When I was younger I would buy fashion magazines every month to see the latest trends, and occasionally incorporate them into my wardrobe, but I stopped doing that about 10 years ago. I still buy the occasional Vogue to look at the beautiful, unattainable fantasy clothes, but I no longer pay attention to what is “in” or “out” in a particular season.
Do you have any fashion and style tips for women over 40?
I don’t think I am in any position to give fashion or style tips as my style is very specific to me and my lifestyle. The only thing I would say is that being over 40 doesn’t mean you have to “tone it down” or start dressing to suit someone else’s idea of what women of a certain age are supposed to look like.
I feel much more liberated in my style choices now than I did when I was in my 30’s because I really don’t give a f@*#k what anyone else thinks about what I’m wearing, and I feel much more comfortable in my own skin.
Life is too short to wear boring clothes.
(I have no idea where this quote originated, but it has become my mantra).
What are your plans for your blog and how do you see it develop over the coming years?
I’ve never had a particular plan for my blog – it has evolved over the years from its beginning as a street style blog, but it has been a natural evolution, not one that was mapped out.
It gets more difficult as the years go by (I will have been blogging as The Forest City Fashionista for five years in April) to find the time and ideas for blog posts, and I have reduced the frequency of my posts to once a week. I’m open to seeing where the blog goes, and to keep it going as long as I enjoy it, and believe that I am providing something that is enjoyable for my readers.
Anything further you would like to add?
Blogging has been the catalyst for developing cherished friendships with like-minded women all over the world, which I had no idea would happen when I started Forest City Fashionista.
The other surprising benefit is that I am much more accepting of myself. I used to hate looking at photos of myself because of my crooked teeth, glasses, etc. and I’m much less critical of myself since I started to regularly put myself out there into the world via my blog, where I’m open to the judgement and criticism of others.
I think blogging is a perfect way for women over 40 to connect with each other and the world at large, and show we have intelligent and interesting things to say, are endlessly creative, inspired and inspiring, and have fabulously diverse style! Many thanks to Sylvia for the opportunity to add my two cents to your interview series.
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