The best body shaper for women over 40

by Sylvia

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Most of us would not want to wear a body shaper every day (although I know women that happily do!).

But, for a special event, or when you just want to look great in a particular dress or outfit which can show up every lump and bump, the right body shaper can smooth out your figure and make you feel much more confident.

A good body shaper should enhance your figure, smoothing out your silhouette and adding a lift where you need it. It should give you a slimmer, smoother look without being uncomfortable.

So, while it should fit in a way which is snug, your body shaper should not dig in and make you uncomfortable.

What is a body shaper?

A body shaper pretty much does what it says on the tin!

It is designed to shape your body and usually comes as a one-piece to shape your tummy, bottom and thighs, although you can get body shapers which simply hone in on the areas you aren’t so happy about.

You may, for example, just choose a piece which slims your tummy, but you may not want it to go down to your thighs.

How to choose a body shaper?

Before I look at some of the top recommendations for body shapers, here are a few tips for choosing one which is right for you.

1. Which parts of your body do you want to concentrate on?

Think about what is a priority for you. Where do you need a little helping hand? Do you want to smooth out your tummy and get rid of the dreaded muffin top? Do you also want to slim and smooth your hips and thighs?

2. What will you wear it under?

Will you use your body shaper for every day wear or just for special occasions?

If it’s the former, your shaper needs to be more comfortable and multi functional.

If you plan to wear your body shaper to an event or special night out, think about the dress or outfit you are wearing and how your body shaper will fit under that.

Does it need a low back, for example, or do you need to make sure you don’t have a visible panty line?

3. Do you want to wear your own bra?

You can buy body shapers which have a built in bra, but if you have a larger bust you may feel more comfortable if you can wear your own bra. If that’s the case, look for body shapers which dip in front of the bust so you can wear the bra of your choice.


For some tips on different options, you may also wish to read this article on shapewear and whether women over 40 need it.


Here are some of the most recommended body shapers for you to try.

waist shaper

If you want to tuck in your tummy and create the illusion of a smaller waist, then you may wish to concentrate on this area alone rather than choosing a body shaper which also stretches down to your thighs.

This waist cincher is designed so that you can wear your own bra with it. It is made from breathable fabric so you should be able to wear it even in warm weather, and comes with thick straps so you can pop your bra straps underneath them.

“This is really comfortable and, while it squeezes everything in, I still feel like I can breathe like a normal human being.” – Tammy

The best waist cinchers for women over 40 |

Gotoly waist cincher, 175 reviews, 4.1 stars

Waist cincher or girdle

Another similarly good option could be this open-bust bodysuit.

If you are looking for a body shaper, the area you wish to focus on is likely to be your tummy. This is designed to flatten your midriff and reduce your waistline along with reducing your back bulge and correcting your posture.

“I got one by Spanx but it gave me that muffin top roll thing over my hips and thighs. This was much better.” – Cort

body shapers for women over 40 |

Shaperx bodyshaper, 4,898 reviews, 3.4 stars

tummy shaper

Your tummy area is likely to be one you wish to smooth and slim if you are looking for a body shaper.

When you think about shapewear, Spanx is probably the brand which springs to mind first.

This bodysuit looks pretty because of the lace, but it also has a graduated mesh panel to target and smooth your belly area. This could be a good option if you don’t need a lot of bust support and don’t want a very constrictive shaper.

“I love this little, lacey wonder. The product really flattens my stomach and defines my waist.” – Helen

Spanx lace bodysuit |

Spanx tummy control bodysuit, 38 reviews, 4.3 stars

shapewear bodysuit

One of the reasons you may be looking for a bodysuit is because you actually prefer to wear it under your outfits rather than a bra and panties.

This one is designed to slim as well as offering support for your bust with underwire cups. The lace makes it more attractive to look at than many other body shapers. It has also been praised by reviewers who said it improved their posture.

“I love the Bali shaper. I am 86 and I wear it about 90% of the time, makes me stand up and not look like an old grandma!” – Maxine

Lace body shaper for women over 40 |

Bali lace ‘n’ smooth firm control bodysuit, 2,066 reviews, 4.2 stars

Best body shaper for tummy and thighs

If you want a body shaper to slim both your tummy and thigh area, then these control knickers could be a good option to try. They’re made from nylon and spandex so are comfortable to wear.

“Good quality fabric and really does the job of both slimming and supporting.” – laugrec

Control pants for women over 40 | 40plusstyle.comNingmi high-waisted tummy control pants, 98 reviews, 4.3 stars

Body slimmer

Another all-round option to slim and smooth could be this seamless open-bust bodyshaper.

It is designed to reduce your waistline and any back bulge, as well as lifting your rear and toning your tummy.

“Excellent to make your body look more ‘firm’. I have one in L and one in XL. I am a size 16 and would recommend the XL if you want it to shape your body but still feel comfortable throughout the day.”

Bodyshaper styles for women over 40 |

KSKshape seamless bodyshaper, 433 reviews, 4.3 stars

Slimming body suit

The Triumph body shaper is a good option for smooth lines under clothes. It has a classic design that may be an undergarment which could be great for day-to-day wear.

“It is a wonderful body shaper and keeps belly and bum in.” – Alexis

Slimming body shaper for women over 40 | 40plusstyle.comTriumph bodysuit, 113 reviews, 4.4 stars

Body Magic

While Spanx may be the brand most people think of when shapewear is mentioned, Body Magic is another recommendation designed to flatter your appearance.

This bodysuit is also designed to support posture, as it supports your shoulder position.

Body shaper style recommendations | 40plusstyle.comArdyss bodyshaper, 155 reviews, 3.4 stars

Body shaper undergarments

When you choose a body shaper, you have to consider how it will look under your outfit. If you need a nude option to make sure that you can’t see your body shaper, you could consider this Gorsenia body shaper.

It has a pretty lace bra and lace panels, along with a tummy panel for control.

“Clothes looked amazing over it.” – genette

white body shaper for women over 40 | 40plusstyle.comGorsenia bodyshaper, 405 reviews, 4.3 stars

Slimming body shaper

A classic style, it comes in black, white and nude so you can choose depending on what you want to wear over it. While not all bodyshapers are attractive in appearance, this one is actually something which looks pretty because of the lace detailing.

“I’m a young 45-year-old, size 12-14 who likes to dress trendy but appropriate for my age. The Charmos fit perfectly under my dress.” – caroline

Charnos bodyshaper | 40plusstyle.comCharnos bodyshaper, 203 reviews, 4.2 stars

Belly shaper

The Camile body shaper is another piece which looks good because of the lace paneling. It has very good 4.5 star reviews from women who praise it for its comfortable and affordable price.

Camille bodyshaper | 40plusstyle.comCamille bodyshaper, 79 reviews, 4.5 stars

Full body shaper

This bodysuit is designed to slim your midsection, hips, thighs and rear to create a more streamlined silhouette. If you want a piece to slim both your tummy and your thighs, you will want to look for an all-in-one which covers both.

“Great quality product! I’m 5’11 tall and wear a size 16-18. It firms and smooths. Buying some more.” – maria

full body shaper for women over 40 | 40plusstyle.comSupplim bodyshaper, 1,456 reviews, 3.8 stars

Strapless body shaper

If you are looking for the best body shaper to wear under a dress, you may wish to opt for a fully bodysuit which also comes with a slip.

This can also be useful if your dress is a little sheer as it will not only tuck in your tummy, but also provide some extra coverage.

It has firm control to tuck in your tummy. It has removable straps so that you can take them off if you want to wear with a strapless dress for an event or while you are on vacation.

strapless body shaper for women over 40 | 40plusstyle.comFlexees convertible bodyshaper, 725 reviews, 3.8 stars

Backless body shaper

One of the frustrating things about shapewear can be trying to find a suitable undergarment if you have a dress which dips low at the back.

After all, the idea of a bodyshaper is that it makes your body look better, without announcing to the world that you are wearing it. You will need to be careful about your choice so that the bra part of the bodyshaper does not show above the dress.

“This thing makes cheap dresses look expensive.” – Kellie

Low back body shaper | 40plusstyle.comFlexees low back bodyshaper, 102 reviews, 3.8 stars

Plus size body shaper

Many body shapers come in a whole range of different sizes because no matter what size or shape you are, you are likely to have parts of your body you are not so keen on, and parts that you are happy with.

A well-recommended plus size option is this one from the Bali brand.

“Best, best, best minimizer/body shaper I’ve ever tried. I love everything about it – great support, great smoothing, great comfort.” – Deborah.

Plus size bodysuits for women over 40 | 40plusstyle.comBali bodysuit, 53 reviews, 4.1 stars

More recommendations from the 40+ Style Community


Most popular among members of the 40+ Style Community was the Spanx brand.

Mary wears Spanx a couple of times a year when she has a fancy event, and usually sizes up for comfort. Kathleen also has Spanx which she says do a better job than a purchase she made on ebay.

This bodysuit can be worn with your own bra. It’s made of ultra-thin material for a non-bulky look.

Spanx bodysuit | 40plusstyle.comSpanx bodysuit, 31 reviews, 4.3 stars

Marks and Spencer

Marks and Spencer has long been a go-to option for women in the UK for quality underwear, and is now available in most parts of the world.

Ros has two bodies from Marks and Spencer and says she loves them.

Marks and Spencer shapewear | 40plusstyle.comM&S shapewear, 32 reviews, 4.1 stars

Do you wear a body shaper? What is the best body shaper you have ever found?

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The best bodyshapers for women over 40

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1 Cindy

Wow!! I wish I would have had this information a couple months ago I bought a Spanx tummy Tamer shorts but the problem is when you put it on you sit down and it rolls down all the time so I need a full one I think that would be better for me because of the rolling down problem on no matter what I get, even high-waisted shapewear still rolls down.

2 tremoughgirl


The best body shaper, for me, hands down, is the Spanx “Spoil Me Cotton”. I don’t need a lot of holding in as much as “strong smoothing”, and this one is perfect. Shaped a lot like a tank top ballet leotard, with a minimal built in bra, it is cotton and spandex. The bad news is that Spanx no longer makes anything like it. I have even communicated with them to find out the best substitute and there isn’t one. Sooo disappointing.

3 Julia (the one in BC)

The Shapeez line is amazing – shapes my torso beautifully and is very comfortable. I love their Tankee especially. It’s a bit pricier than average but I haven’t yet found anything else I like as much.

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